Relationships In campus

 Its been years and years of of stories of how young girls and young boys  killing themselves due to Toxic relationship  at Campuses. Relationship tends to be good or sweet at the first time or at that first month ;the promises, calls, sweet words not knowing  its consiquences.

The underlying causes of these relationships? According to behary toxic relationships often stir up our deepest fears:perhaps early Trauma, early memories of abandonment or abuse, being made to feel that you are inadequate or unlovable or being deprived of emotional attention . 

Its been so painful loosing young ages at campus and colleges only because of this thing called Campus relationship. Parents have been left with no words to say no one to complain too and no where to lie off their heads after loosing their sons and daughters.

If we may try to share this , there are some options too we make in life that leads us to suffer the rest of our life . Its been a big problem to  mostly girls going an extend of dating old name "Wababa" that has been  a big problem to them. Most of the ladies have been left in a big depression and sufferings that may affect them eternally.

Some two  years back  we lost a  second-year student who was being stupped to death by his boyfriend so much tragic, also its now over three years that Ivy Mwangechi aged 25was Brutterly murdered by Naftali Kinuthua who claimed to be his Boyfriend  at moi Refferal Teaching hospital.Such incidents hits bitterly back to their parents  and causes more damage to them.Lets not  left our parents without option and yet they had you as the best option if you find it hard to love then you better keep  away to avoid more stress and more pressure. Lets not cause that  premature deaths and  depression at this age , lets help ourfriends keep out of this  too. 

Its clear that this incidents will not stop if we do not take precautions and help our brothers and sisters from out of this . Its is so evident that we can help our youth sisters and brothers with more advices and encouragements  on how to do up with this disaster so called relationships.Relationship are sweet but take precautions and  be ready for anything good or bad . If it turns up for you learn on the skills to fight it . Ladies also know the kind of a man you may rest your heart and your mind.